Love that guy!

Daddy paid me the nicest compliment last night. We were married very young - we were both only 20.  Obviously over the last 10 years we have grown and changed as people.  In some good ways and some bad ways.  We were cleaning up from supper last night and he grabbed me and said that he loves the person I have become. :) I love that guy!

Purging, purging, purging

So even though we have no date for our move - not even a real projected month - I am attempting to prepare.  First off purging the heck out of my house. 

Daddy and I tackled the kid's rooms a couple weeks ago.  I know from past experience however it will require a multiple prong attack.  We did the preliminary purge.  In a few weeks we will need to do another one to narrow it down further.

Today I started on my books.  Sigh.  I am a proud bibliophile and I own about 4 large bookshelves worth of books - not counting the small bookshelves that Claire and Chandler have in each of their rooms.  However, I know that in a big move like this I'm going to have to pare down.  I packed 6 boxes of books and found one box and a grocery bag worth to sell/donate.  Some of those were doubles and others were ones I got a long time ago and am just not as interested in anymore.  That still leaves me with a LOT of books to sort through.  It's so hard and sad.  Which are my most important friends?  Which books do I definitely need to keep for the children even though they are years away from understanding them?  Are these two books of Hans Christian Anderson's tales different?

My clothes and kitchen goods are also on the list of sort and purge.  I will tell you this - when we have our yard sale it will be an awesome one!  ;)

What's for Dinner?

I felt even though we don't watch football I should serve something Superbowly (yes, I just made up a word) for dinner on Sunday.  So this week's menu ...

Sunday:  Buffalo Chicken Casserole with Chips

Monday:  Meatloaf, Mashed Potatoes, Biscuits and Veggies

Tuesday:  Oyaku Donburi and Rice

Wednesday:  Homemade Pesto Pizza

Thursday:  Chicken Nuggets, Mac and Cheese and Veggies (sometimes you just need to have a quick, easy, kid friendly meal!)

Friday:  Whole Wheat Buttermilk Pancakes and Bacon

Saturday:  Whole Roast Chicken, Egg Noodles with gravy, Biscuits and Veggies

Drama, Drama, Drama

I thought I had time before these drama-filled weekends.

First of all, the entire family was recovering from colds.  This apparently meant I should have expected the meltdowns every time I asked someone to do anything.  Cleaning their rooms what a major accomplishment and wiping a sore nose?  Ugh.  I felt like I needed superhero back up to handle the Rampaging Toddler.  Of course, lets not leave out my 5 year old Drama Queen.  If I hear one more "That's not FAIR!" or "I am NOT going to do that!" I will snap.  Oh wait .... I did. 

Add in a grumpy Daddy also recovering from a cold and I am very happy for it to be Monday. 

My house looked looks like a bomb went off - one that had toys and laundry as shrapnel.  I overwhelmed myself looking at the list that needed to be completed this morning, but I'm pleased with my progress so far. 

1.  Do schoolwork with Claire - check!

2.  Start the many loads of laundry - check!

3.  Make more laundry detergent - check!

4.  Wash dishes - check!

5.  Reorganize and sort the homeschool/craft/game/kitchen shelf - BIG CHECK!!!

6. Fold laundry

7.  Sweep and mop kitchen

8.  Clean and vacuum living room

Over half way there - I guess I should get back to work!

What's on the Menu?

I forgot to post this week's menu!

Sunday:  My Birthday Dinner at my Grandma's house - she made her wonderful mancotti with homemade crepes and butterscotch meringue pie was the main dessert!  (Along with chocolate cake, bread pudding, strawberry shortcake with homemade whipped cream and pumpkin pie!)

Monday:  Nachos and Guacamole

Tuesday:  My actual Birthday - Daddy took us out to eat!

Wednesday:  Daddy worked late so it was a leftovers night

Thursday:  Meatloaf, Mashed Potatoes and Steamed Veggies

Friday:  Pasta Alfredo, Salad and Homemade Bread

Saturday:  Homemade Pesto Pizza and Salad

Goodbye 20's ... HELLOOO 30's!

Yesterday was my 30th birthday. 

What a day of mixed emotions.

#1  "Hurray!  Another year on earth!"

#2  "Ahhh! I'm old!"

#3  "Age is just a number - I'm just getting better!"

#4  "Ahhh!  I'm old!"

#5  "My 30's will be an awesome decade!"

#6  "Where did my 20's go?"

Okay you get the idea ... here's for growing and getting better!

An Encouragement

I had my homeschool mom meeting last week and we had a wonderful discussion.  It was such an encouragement and exactly what I needed that night after a very hard day of parenting.  We started with a very interesting discussion about the birthday traditions we have developed for our children.  How do we make our children feel special on their day and let them know we appreciate the day they came into our lives?  That conversation evolved into being yourself and being content with your "season".  Homeschooling mothers (and any mother for that case) have many demands on their time and even as we are devoting ourselves to our children we must be careful to not lose ourselves.  It's so easy to be so busy with lesson plans, housework, laundry, toddlers and babies that there is no time to think or grow yourself.  We forget that we need to explore and encourage ourselves - our souls for lack of a better word.  It's nearly impossible to make sure you have plenty of time for you.  Most days I barely have time to remember my name.  You just have to be yourself in all the little things you do every day.  Don't believe you have to be your vision of a "perfect mom" or be intimidated by the other moms around you.  To be the "perfect mom" you don't have to bake fresh bread daily, create all your children's clothing, throw huge birthday parties and always be smiling - unless that is you!  You do have to love and know your children.  We discussed how we believe our children will remember us.  Some days you may be afraid that your children will grow up and say their childhood was full of mama at the end of her rope, but motherhood is a journey.  We don't have to spend quality time with every child every day or have fun projects for every day of the week.  It is an overall thing.  Try to be joyful and intentional in the things you do.  We can't be everything to every child.  Our leader remembered a prayer she had on her mirror for many years asking God to fill in her inadequacies for her children.  We all have failings but there is so much that we can give our children.  Whether it is a love of reading, love and snuggles or a love of the outdoors it all depends on you.  We are so blessed.  Even on the hard days.

No Spend Week Menu

We're having a no-spend, clean out the pantry week.  I picked up some produce and milk and that was it, but I think I came up with a nice menu ...

Sunday:  Clean-Out-the-Fridge Chicken Soup and Homemade bread

Monday:  Dinner at the In-Laws

Tuesday:  Sausage & Eggs and Pancakes (Whole-Wheat)

Wednesday:  Fish Patties, Mashed Potatoes and Veggies

Thursday:  Sesame Chicken, Rice and Veggies

Friday:  Chicken Nuggets, Mac & Cheese and Salad

Saturday:  Pasta Alfredo and Garlic Knots

I think I will draw this out to next week too - I already have ideas!

Looking forward ...

Claire is part of a small homeschool co-op that I love!  Last week was the Mom Planning Meeting and I have to say I now have one reason I don't want to move right away.  We have such a great semester planned.  I love the fact that Claire can meet and learn with other children every week, but it's very casual and her quirks are appreciated and tolerated.  We are starting with a 4 week section on Simple Machines and then we will have a Valetine's party and make Valentine's to pass out at our local nursing home (we did the same thing with Christmas cards last month and the everyone loved it).  Then we have a 4 week section on Government and the Presidents that I really look forward to (I was a History/Poli Sci major).  Then we have planned a Career Day.  We hope to have our husbands, etc come in and discuss their professions with the children.  Then a section on Tall Tales, a Field Day and start practicing an End of Year Program for the parents and grandparents.  We plan on finishing out with a trip to the National Park!  We also are planning a Gym day (at the County Rec Center) once a month and we want to do a family skate night.  I think it sounds like a great plan.

I wish we knew exactly when we were moving.  But we have a lot to do until then!

What's For Dinner This Week?

Trying several new recipes this week ... hope my picky eater aka Claire will at least try them!

Sunday:  Fried Tilapia, Mashed Potatoes and Steamed Veggies

Monday:  Homemade Garlic Cheese Pizza and Salad

Tuesday:  Chicken Lo Mein

Wednesday:  Tacos

Thursday:  Crock pot Italian Chicken Pasta

Friday:  Roasted Whole Chicken, Mashed Potatoes and Steamed Veggies

Saturday:  Whole Wheat Buttermilk Pancakes and Bacon

Why did you even ask me?

Claire comes up to me with two shirts.

"Mama, which one should I wear?"

"The star one."

She stares at me and repeats, "Mama, which one should I wear?"

Again I say, "The star one!"

She stares at me again and once again say, "Mama, which one should I wear?"

I have a moment of dawning comprehension.  "Umm, the butterfly one?"

She smiles brightly and bounces off, "Thanks Mom!"

Umm, what was my part of this decision?

What's for Dinner this Week?

Well, I'm on the ball this week and made a menu:

Sunday:  Ravioli (marinara sauce for me and Alfredo for Daddy - he's allergic to tomatoes) for the grownups and Spaghetti for the kids and Italian bread

Monday:  Dinner at the In-laws

Tuesday:  Chicken Schnitzel, Macaroni and Cheese and Steamed Veggies

Wednesday:  Sour Cream Enchilada Casserole

Thursday:  Whole Wheat Buttermilk Pancakes and Bacon

Friday:  Chicken Alfredo Pasta and Garlic Bread

Saturday:  Beef Stroganoff, Egg Noodles and Steamed Veggies